Every body deserves to love and to be loved. Love is what people need to make their life motivated and strength. Without love and caring from other people, we will feel the emptiness in life. Parents who have children should give their love and tenderness to them. Especially when they are still small children, they actually need the full time of love and caring from their parents. It is like a responsibility, commitment and consequence from parents.
But in today’s life where globalization is everywhere, the competition become tighter every day. To earn money is really important for both sides of parents. It seems that if only father who earns money; it will be not enough to fulfill the whole family’s financial need. The fact is, not only husband but also wife goes out from home to earn money and they leave their children at full day school or at home with baby sitter. Do their teacher and baby sitter will give the same love as their mother and father would give? The answer is absolutely not.
Mother is the center figure who must give lots of love and care to her children. It is like priority of her life. Mothers are able to work, but if they have small children, their prior responsibility is to take care her children and at home.
The caring and love that parents, especially mother can give to her children is starting from the awakening in the morning until at night they go to bed. This sounds so difficult. It has to be noticed that those fulltime mother will be harder in physical when the children are still small. Small children should be nurse more physically than mentally. But after the children grow older, they must be taken care more to their mental or psychology. Because in teenager moment is the important moment to give them lots of advice about life, build their mentality and personality.
Children will learn about gentle feeling, compassionate and affectionate from mother. Mean while, children will learn about leadership, logic and firmness from father. The combination of love and care between mother and father will contribute to a perfect mind, soul and physic to children. It is important to earn money more, but it is a lot more important taking care children since they were young, so that they will grow as an excellent and solid generations in the future.
Posted on August 30, 2010