Becoming a parent is the most graceful thing in life. However, there are times when we have to face frustration, moreover if we have to face toddlers or teens with such a headstrong character. There are children who always fight with their brother or sister, and when we told them to say the apology; they say it with funny faces or mocking tone. Well, if we have such situation, then the best way is giving them a team work job that requires them to work together as a team. With such job, they will know how meaningful their brother or sister is and it will automatically make their relationship closer.

Some children are having a sarcastic character. Well, we don’t know where they learn how to be sarcastic, but we might have the right to the TV shows. If our children love hitting their brother, or us, then straight punishment is needed. Of course, the punishment is hot by hitting them back, but by telling them that every of their action is having its consequence and put them in a room or a corner, so they can think about what they have done.

Frustration is one thing all parents often feel. One thing we have to remember is never show our emotion or frustration when we are near our children because they will behave like us.

In the whole world any people, when they are become parents have a dream to be great parents. We all hopes that we are able to accommodate our kids needs, whether it is physically or mentally. Therefore being a parent is not an easy job.

To be a good parent, we should be able to provide our kids physical safety. It can be a shelter for them or clothes, or even nutrition that our kids need. We are also responsible for our kid’s health and also protect them from any dangers that may harm them physically or mentally. The world is changing rapidly nowadays; therefore we must be able to provide them a suitable education in order to preparing their future. It is important because it is our responsible for our kid’s intellectual development. We are also should teach them about social skills. It is important for our kids since we are not living alone in this world, with proper social skills hopefully our kids are able to live their own life in society without significant difficulties.

Therefore with all the things we are preparing for them even from they are not born, hopefully we are able to do our job as parent to the fullest. It is just like the wise man say that we are not own this world, we are simply borrowing it from our children.

In the world nowadays there are so many bad things can happen to us and our children. Therefore as a good parent, we must be able to protect them from any kinds of danger, whether it is from the outside or from the inside.

Providing our kids a safe place to grow is one important thing that we should consider. Choosing the suitable neighborhood for our kids development is also plays crucial role. With a good neighborhood it is hopefully our kids are able to grow without worrying any kinds of danger that can harm them. Choosing a place to live is important, because when we are living in a bad place our kids are able learn various things that is not suitable for their age. Many lessons that they receive from a bad neighborhood are destructive and dangerous. It is dangerous for their mental and physical development. Therefore we must be very careful in selecting the place we want to live. If the situation is not allowing us to have suitable neighborhood for our kids to grow, then parent must be able to teach their kids about what is good and what is bad.

Being a parent is not an easy job, therefore a good preparation is crucial in welcoming our God given gift to this world. We are surely do not want anything bad happen to our children.

If someone is asked about a simple job that everybody does but everybody think as the most important job that requires almost all the energy that we possess that is not merely for our sake but mostly for others, the answer would be the being a parent. Yes, this job is unlike the other job that only requires some hours a day isnce parensts are responsible for the children 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, until they can be independent and also being able to take the same resposnibilities as yourrs when they already have their own children.

Thought there are so many things that can be discussed, now we will limit our case if you are having a larger family with relatively many children. How can you manage their need not only as family members but also as individuals who have character, growth, achievements, needs, and even problems of their own?

The first thing that you must do is by sparing your time to ask each one of your child about their day. After asking one person, you will need also to ask the next child who want to share his or her story. Next, you need to spend time to ask about their effort and what they have done. Not only seeing them, you also need to give praise if they achieve what their goals or simply on their effort.

No matter what your job when you are going outside the home, as parent you have the most important job inside the home that takes all time to have the full responsibility towards your children, especially if they are still dependent towards your role. Spending quality time therefore is very important not only to be shared with a family as a whole and also with the family members as individuals.

There are lots of things that can be thought of individuals in a family. However, let us now discuss if you are having a large family and if you know the neccessity to spend quality time with the individuals but you do not know how to do it. The most important thing here is to get your skill in listening. Here are three little things that you can do to increase quality time with the children as individuals. First it can be shown by asking simple things to each of the child about their day.

Besides that, you will also need to pay attention towards their work and the goals that they want to achieve. Not only that, you also have to praise them for their work, that will be seen mosre on the effort instead of the result that can be achived better next time.