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Posted on September 10, 2010
They are like a blank piece of paper, that every single word that written on them will absorbed perfectly. So there is no tolerance to give them wrong parenting, harsh attitude, or bad words, because they will record it hundred percent in their memory and imitate it in their attitude. It is every parent’s responsibility to nurse and educate them right and properly according to their age with love and care.
If children done any bad attitude, parents are not allowed to get mad. Parents must give explanation why children should not do that mistake. But if children keep on repeating that bad attitude, parents should give a stronger emphasis on their explanation and give punishment that can make them deterred from doing that bad attitude.
If children done any good attitude, don’t delay to give them rewards, and give them present once in a while. Rewards and presents can become their motivation and their pride to do more good and valuable attitudes.
Teach your children responsibility. For example after they eat food, they should throw the rubbish into the trash basket. Or when they finish play with their toys, teach them to clean and settle all the toys back into the toy box.
Teach your children to love reading the books. Books are like window of outer world. From reading many books they will get much knowledge that not obtainable from parents or other sources. Starting to read them book before go to bed, and set the schedule to read book every day. For example reading book should be done every day at afternoon. This routine habit can grow them love to read books.
Limit the time to watch television, because this thing can give them many invaluable knowledge and information. It is not recommended to watch television in long time in a day, because this will decrease the capability to concentrate and will make them become inpatient personality. Television consist of millions of motion pictures, this actually can disturb their concentration and make them inpatient. One to two hours a day to watch the television is sufficient.
Teach your children to say those golden words, such as “I am sorry” if they done anything wrong; “Thank you” if they are given any things or any help from someone; and “Please” if they need any help from anyone. These words will make them realize the important meaning to respect others.
Babies and children are so sensitive to various germs and bacteria. Therefore, it is our duty as parents to make everything as hygiene as possible. Keeping the hygiene is not always mean using gallons of alcohol; some germs can be handled by using hot water or soap. Here are some tips that we can apply in our daily life with the children.
Some of us are only using baby wipes when we are replacing the baby’s diaper. Well, the baby wipes might look effective on cleaning our hand or baby’s skin, but the germs remains. To rid the germs away, we can wash our hands and baby’s skin with hot water and soap. If it is too complicated, then antiseptic liquid like gel or tissue with alcohol or antiseptic can be a good choice.
What we are going to do might seem too much, but we have to wash the bottle or pacifier that dropped on the floor or table even though it only touches the floor for about several seconds. In brief, to avoid germs, we have to keep whatever thing around our children clean. For the whole house, make sure that we vacuum all of the rugs, curtain or sofa to avoid dust, and mop the floor every day.
Reading is one skill that children must be mastered early on. Because of low reading ability, children would have an impact on weakness mastery of science and mathematics. Later on, this question arises, whether the technique of reading or foster child’s interest toward reading should take precedence. Please note that children aged 18 months to 4 years old have a great curiosity. Curiosity is not only appearing when viewing color images in the book, but also symbols of numbers and letters contained in the book.
Introduction to the enjoyment and love of books can be started by parents through the family environment, by giving examples. Parents can set an example by showing the habit of reading books in front of their children. When the children became interested in the reading of his parents, teach the kids interact with books. Parents can read books or told about the contents of books or reading material they read when their children are interested to participate in reading.
Do not forget that parents create a safe and comfortable atmosphere for reading to children. Children who are interested in a reading will often ask their parents. This is an important moment for the lessons to read and understand the contents of the reading. Parents must be willing and able to provide facilities which prompted a discussion about the reading asked by their children. This was at once trains analytical and comprehension skills of the children.
In the whole world any people, when they are become parents have a dream to be great parents. We all hopes that we are able to accommodate our kids needs, whether it is physically or mentally. Therefore being a parent is not an easy job.
To be a good parent, we should be able to provide our kids physical safety. It can be a shelter for them or clothes, or even nutrition that our kids need. We are also responsible for our kid’s health and also protect them from any dangers that may harm them physically or mentally. The world is changing rapidly nowadays; therefore we must be able to provide them a suitable education in order to preparing their future. It is important because it is our responsible for our kid’s intellectual development. We are also should teach them about social skills. It is important for our kids since we are not living alone in this world, with proper social skills hopefully our kids are able to live their own life in society without significant difficulties.
Therefore with all the things we are preparing for them even from they are not born, hopefully we are able to do our job as parent to the fullest. It is just like the wise man say that we are not own this world, we are simply borrowing it from our children.
In the world nowadays there are so many bad things can happen to us and our children. Therefore as a good parent, we must be able to protect them from any kinds of danger, whether it is from the outside or from the inside.
Providing our kids a safe place to grow is one important thing that we should consider. Choosing the suitable neighborhood for our kids development is also plays crucial role. With a good neighborhood it is hopefully our kids are able to grow without worrying any kinds of danger that can harm them. Choosing a place to live is important, because when we are living in a bad place our kids are able learn various things that is not suitable for their age. Many lessons that they receive from a bad neighborhood are destructive and dangerous. It is dangerous for their mental and physical development. Therefore we must be very careful in selecting the place we want to live. If the situation is not allowing us to have suitable neighborhood for our kids to grow, then parent must be able to teach their kids about what is good and what is bad.
Being a parent is not an easy job, therefore a good preparation is crucial in welcoming our God given gift to this world. We are surely do not want anything bad happen to our children.