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If you just experienced your beloved children losing their control, give a good example for them by demonstrating healthy ways to react to situations that can make them depressed. No matter how difficult it is, keep trying not to scream when you’re disciplining your children. Instead, try to clear and focus on the problem.
When your child has calmed down, stay calm and explain that yelling, cursing, and slamming doors are unacceptable behaviors and there are consequences – then explain the consequences. Your actions can show that anger is not the correct way for children to ask for something. If your child is angry at the department store, once you have just explained why you do not want to buy candy for her, do not despair – this shows that anger is something that is not acceptable and is not effective for them to do.
Consider talking with your child’s teacher about classroom arrangement and proper behavior which is expected. Try to remember your own actions, whether you are overcoming as well as possible about the situation which is depressing. If not, you may want to ask your doctor whether family counseling is necessary for your beloved family.
Posted on January 21, 2010
If someone is asked about a simple job that everybody does but everybody think as the most important job that requires almost all the energy that we possess that is not merely for our sake but mostly for others, the answer would be the being a parent. Yes, this job is unlike the other job that only requires some hours a day isnce parensts are responsible for the children 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, until they can be independent and also being able to take the same resposnibilities as yourrs when they already have their own children.
Thought there are so many things that can be discussed, now we will limit our case if you are having a larger family with relatively many children. How can you manage their need not only as family members but also as individuals who have character, growth, achievements, needs, and even problems of their own?
The first thing that you must do is by sparing your time to ask each one of your child about their day. After asking one person, you will need also to ask the next child who want to share his or her story. Next, you need to spend time to ask about their effort and what they have done. Not only seeing them, you also need to give praise if they achieve what their goals or simply on their effort.
Posted on January 6, 2010
Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD) and Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) are two very common terms on the mind of parents these days. This is especially true if their child is having trouble in the classroom or getting into trouble. Some might say that ADHD and ADD is an over diagnosed problem that is a sign of the times where everyone is looking to assign blame to someone or something. This is especially troublesome because the treatment of ADHD and ADD is with stimulants that have a very real danger associated with them. One major problem that has recently surfaced as a result, is the abuse of these drugs for purposes other than the intended use. College students are buying them to help stay awake for long study sessions and test preparation. Kids are abusing the drugs at parties because in many ways drugs are easier to get than alcohol.
A big relief for many is the recent introduction of alternatives to drugs in the treatment for ADD and ADHD. One of the alternative solutions is called Neurofeedback, also known as EEG (Electroencephalogram) Biofeedback. Neurofeedback is a learning procedure that enables participants to improve mental performance, normalize behavior, and stabilize mood.
Neurofeedback is perhaps the biggest breakthrough in non-invasive medicine in the last 50 years. The beneficial effects of EEG Biofeedback (Neurofeedback) Training are thought to be permanent. As brain wave training is actually a form of learning, once a person has learned how to control his brain wave patterns, he always knows how to do so. This is different than the on-going expense of treating ADHD and ADD with drugs.
Posted on January 6, 2010
Babies cry as always. Healthy babies cry when it is hungry, sleepy, feeling inconvenient, or wanting for a hug; and giggle when it feels happy and comfortable. However, unhealthy babies cry all the time, no matter how you try to make it comfort. You have feed it, breastfeed, and sing lullaby, your baby still cry.
Continuous crying may point to some serious problem related to inner health. Please record when your baby have less appetite, not pooping, or have difficulties in sleeping. Continuous crying plus these symptoms is enough to consult your pediatrician. Without these symptoms, well, you may say that you need to improve your sensitivity on entertaining your baby.
Baby’s cry is its only language to express demand. So baby’s cry only has one tone: loud and full of command. When the baby is hungry, it would be fussy and writhing. The cry would be louder if it hasn’t got its food yet. If it is hurt, cold, or hot, your baby would shrilly cry. If your baby cries, you’d better check what is happening to it. Don’t be hurry putting baby’s comforter into its mouth. Comforter would shut it up, but the real problem would not be solved.
Posted on December 30, 2009
Dealing with toddler’s nightmares is can be quite challenging since that toddler usually get the difficulties in telling you their problems and it’s the parent’s to understand their problems and looking for the available solution for it. If you have completely sure about the nightmare problem is what been caught your child, and since that sleeping is the important thing for their health, maintaining the immediate actions for the solution should be recommended.
As the prevention, you should consider limiting their access to some horror movies or any scary bedtime stories, that it mightn’t that scary for you, but for them it does. Reduce the presence of scary things around the house, such as monsters action figures and soon. Playing a fun games or playing a calming music is also recommended. Get those chocolates, tea, or any rich caffeine foods away.
If they are in a medication, you should consider it and ensure is hasn’t bad dream side effects after all. And at last, you should push them to talk about the dream. Let them tell you about what really scare them and if it possible find also things that stimulate the image into their dream. There might problems in their schools or social activities you should know, and others.