Each parent is using their own technique on the parenting, but I often find so many parents that have one wrong similarity: giving a bribe to their children. For example, when a child does not want to go neat his toys, mother will try to tell him to neat his toys over and over without any result, on the other side, the child will only assume that his mother is very talkative. Seeing the situation, father tells the child to neat his toys and father will give him a dollar. The child neat his toys directly without waiting too long.
Such technique might work effectively, but unfortunately the parents build a bad character to the child. If such thing becomes a habit, then the child will ask material value on everything they do. The character can stick to them even though he has become a grown up person. The bribe is giving a negative effect for the children, so it will be better if we are not using such method any longer.
Now the question is, how can we handle such situation? Such as telling the child to neat his toys, or eat the vegetables on the plate? Instead of bribing, it will be better if we treat them like adult and give them the understanding of how important and beneficial vegetables for our body or how important respecting our toys by put them on the shelf.
